Censored Lusts

Do LUST necessarily have to relate with sexual fantasies? If yes! You’re absolutely false. Why does it always have to be sexual cravings? Can’t a woman lust at her life? Can’t she lust for happiness? “Censored Lusts” takes you through a series of events that pops into a woman’s mind every now and then!

She gazed through her window, pondering upon the enigmas of life. Millions of thoughts and questions popped as a jittery knife that probed and provoked her to retort. “What am I doing to myself? Where is my life heading towards?”, she demanded an answer not from her lips but from her soul.

Glitches of sarcasm and taunts haunted her. She glanced at her unwaxed arms and hairy limbs. Her overgrown brows and dark mustache had no genuine answers. Disgusted with her extravagant curves and patchy armpits and thighs she despised and scorned at her existence. “But why??”, the woman inside her disputed with her brain again and again. Stripping her clothes off, she glared herself in front of the mirror. Unfastening her frizzy, greasy hair she let it flow over her shoulders. She then picked up her favourite hot red lip shade and peeked at her once again. “Not bad woman!” smirked her soul whilst her bitchy brain mocked at her for her looks. 

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“What would he be thinking about me? Does he even like me? Who is he to me? Is he just my friend or crush? Or have I fallen for him?”, her ruthless psyche began bombarding her with quizzes. “I guess I like him, or maybe I even love him but is it love? Noooo! How can it be love! It neither seem nor feel so. Or is it Lust? His warmth does feel good and pampering makes me happy. Gosh! It is lust! I’m afraid if the world will judge me if it turns out to be lust!”, she freaked out and exploded with random counters.

She resolved as she gazed through the window and her ponderings came to an halt. Burying her fancies and desires, she censored her lusts putting it in its deathbed. “BUT WHY?”, kept echoing her inner soul, but never got any answer.

So tell me, Isn’t this what we’ve always been doing? C’mon you woman don’t deny! Your secrets are no longer hideous. Why are you ashamed of yourselves? Why are you curtailing your desires? Is it immoral to be filled with lusts? Yes! I do have lusts and I love the way I’m. Don’t you have them too? Maybe you can cease your lusts but you know what! You can never censor the truth!

To a beautiful 2018!


Mahalakshmi Ramasubramanian.



The world is wierd! And so it’s people are! All these years I’ve been deleberately thinking about how men outnumber and dominate women in the society. But never have I ever thought the reason behind such attitude of theirs. Well, I’m not here to throw light on the actual odds of men over women but don’t you think there are odds from our side too!? Agreed men harrass and rape women, men sexually assault women. But don’t you think women do them too?

C’mon let us all take a moment to sit back and analyse. No person is evil ever since they were born. No one is born a psychopath, not all men are rapist to greedily eye our fleshes. You’ve your father and your brother, your friend and your husband, are they one of that kind? Are they hitting on you? If yes, fight back your asses off to teach them tight, the right lesson.

Researches reveals that 1 in 6 men are sexually exploited. Men are also being forcefully used for some women’s physical pleasures in schools, universities, workplaces and where not. They are being tortured and suppressed mentally and physically. And the surprising fact is that such woes are unsaid and unheard. Now where does your gender equality stand? Have we actually misinterpreted equality to be inequality?

Let’s start afresh. What do you call a woman taking a stand for her fellow women? – “FEMINIST”. Now how can you even tag a man “A CHAUVINIST”, when they voice out their opinions or try to take a stand for themselves. We are just human beings with different heads and brains. So, what is wrong when a man has a different opinion nevertheless of it being right or wrong.

Not here to blame women, because irrespective of the umpteen efforts the truth shall be never washed off. All we wanted is to gain mutual respect, equality and justice. Having enjoying the benefits, women should strongly now realise how a man’s life has changed during the course of evolution. He works hard and she works too. He takes care of the kids and she does it too. He’s educated and so you’re equally skilled. Don’t you think things are square now?

“We live in a patriarchal society, because I’m a girl I would have to leave my parents when I’m married and so the whole of my world will flip out”, I’d always used to curse the cliche practices and myths. Then why do you women would always use your master minds to snatch your so- called-husbands from the clench of their parents? Men do have heart and emotions. They’d love you and their parents as well. Now shall I count it under injustice too?

Why do you always have to picture your in-laws as demons and vamps? I know not everyone can always be sweet to your face and neither you don’t always have to butter your “Pathi Dev”(Husband) nor “Saasu Maa” (Mother-in-law). And you guys know what? It all starts with us and also ends with us (Women), because life is a bommerang. What you sow is what you reap.

So, let us stop portraying ourselves to be the victims and start afresh a life where equality actually remains to be mutual and equal. The rest let us leave it to the karma to tackle.

Happy International Men’s Day!😍

Mahalakshmi Ramasubramanian.

(A Proud Woman)

Me & The Midnight

Young woman, early 20s, hands on camera and out for the night? Must be nothing of a big deal for you, but still is a dream for many!

Wandering in the city late in the night, beams of bright light and the sounds of ‘Zoom and vroom vroom’ echoed across streets breaking the melancholic silence. People pulled themselves up from the snooze mode to pay a look at the girl in sweatpants and shoes with a camera hanging around her neck. However before the glances fell any down, there I was all eager to plunge in love with city’s most beautiful night life. Yes, My first ever night in the city!


Hailing from an extremely loving and protective family has always been my boon and bane. Dad and mum keeps showering their love and concern which turned me into ‘Dadda’s Daughter’. But for how long will it be possible for me stay dependent and naive! And that’s when I got the chance to crack the code around me.

The extremely cold breeze made me crave for it more and more as it blew across my face, cars and trucks sped across the highway tearing down the night’s innocent mask, the bright yellow street lights were nothing less of a Sparkler and there I held my breath to relish the best night of my life.

Hundreds of eyes!

The night did have a more beautiful detailing than the day. The view from the deserted bridge covered whole of the city. It was 1 AM yet the buses in the depots were still stuffed with people. Women were dressed in sarees of sheer and satins, where one grumpy uncle took pleasure by scratching his back and the other woke up the kid sleeping next to him as he yawned loud like a big thunder storm and how can I not mention the bunch of love bees who literally did nothing but nuisance which also entertained the people around for killing their longest night.


The Midnight khaana

Food is what my life is all about. Steaming cups of chai and coffee with crispy vada, the aroma of samosa, bajji and bonda, the ‘Cling cling’ noise from the ‘kadala anna’ (One who sells roasted ground nut), ‘kaara Pori and solam’ (Spicy puffed rice and corn) added oil to my burning hunger. Woah, Isn’t it mouth watering? (P.S.I’m already drooling). The constant nagging of the so called chat waala literally dragged people towards it. Seriously! But who gobbles ‘Masala puri and egg fried rice’ so late in the night?


The busy street!

It was past 2.30 AM and woke the busiest street falling under its routine. The “Poo market”. The aura is extremely beautiful to be explained, the radio played songs aloud, The laymen kept loading and unloading the trucks with goods, fragrance of Agarbattis(Incense sticks) gelled with the 100s of sacks of vibrant and fragrant flowers, the florists were busy making garlands and the shopping cart kept filling in and this carries on 24×7.


Pictures credit: Mahalakshmi Ramasubramanian

Wait, it’s not over yet. We drove around the city for an another hour to fall more deeply in love with the streets. It was almost half past 3 Am when I reached home and guess what? It was Dad who was still up for his dear daughter to come back. Obviously, he was worried and scared if I was safe and sound yet he believed in me. I know it takes so much for a parent to let their 21 year old kid to stay out so late in the night but they did. After all the best times I’ve had I bid good-bye to the night with a very proud feel of accomplishing something unbelievable.

Ofcourse I was eyed by men, I was gazed from top to bottom, I was passed after slimy looks and winks but at the end of the day it was just, ‘Me & The Midnight’.

A special note,

Kannan Athimber!!! (Brother-in-law) Thank you so much for taking me out and letting me live the 270 minutes to the fullest . It wouldn’t have been possible without you and as I said you really make a great photographer.


Mahalakshmi Ramasubramanian.

Blue Whale- The Sick Suicide Challenge

ATTENTION PLEASE! Parent’s and guardian’s! This is high time for you to notice.

How many of you came across the virally outbursting “Blue Whale Challenge” case in the social media and news sheets? What is the challenge?Who are victims been trapped? The answer will freeze your brains and bones- Teens! Shocking isn’t it? Well, after all the suicides and attempt to end up lives the Government had now put ‘THE END’ to the ONLINE URLs that paved way for the teenagers towards the deadly challenge. But what is Blue Whale? Stay in with me throughout the thread to know more!

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Blue Whale is not just a game nor an application that shall be downloaded from an App Store or Playstore. The links for the suicidal challenge spread like forest fire in social platforms and websites available in the world wide web. The online challenge is stipulated for a timeframe of 50 days where the challenger (The player) stays in touch with the Curator (The administrator). Everyday the curator challenges a player with a task and the player records a video of him/her completing the task given. Sounds simple and fair right? But hey, hold on let me furnish you with some of the challenges.

The Blue Whale Challenges

The challenge ranges from 1-50 daily tasks. For say, “Carving an image of a whale or some phrase with a razor on your hand and sending a picture to the curator, watching and listening to psychedelic horror videos and music at 4.20Am everyday, Slicing arms and legs with cipher and needles along with veins, challenged to go an extremely higher altitude roof top and climbing a crane, provoked to visit a railroad, Made to do secret tasks and hallucinate them by asking the teen to talk to a whale and vow that he/she’s a whale” and the 50th task is to “Jump off from a high building and take his/her life”. And once the task is done the player sends it to the curator for approval and the process continues.

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The ultimate moto of the everyday challenge is to make the player mentally unstable and bring in suicidal tendencies in them. It arouses the curiosity of the teen to do such attempts. The poor players unaware of the deadly addiction begin to take up the tasks just as a one day fun but apparently end up slewing themselves.

Eventually with every passing day the disturbed soul sinks down & down and turn hopelessly lost in the brutal game. The shocking fact is that, this challenge has been in existence since 2004. Slowly the deadly trend reached India and ultimately took away the lives of several teenager’s by provoking them to attempt suicide by strangling themselves to death.


However the Government and the Ministry of Electronics and Information technology of India have ordered digital platform like, Facebook, Google, Twitter and so on to officially put down and block the links for Whale Challenge. There are few alerts and awareness for the parents and guardians:

    • Kindly check you children’s activities linked with Internet and mobile devices.
    • If possible, stay around the kids when they are using internet and other digital devices.
    • Talk to your children and spend some lone time with them on a daily basis to create a friendly rapport.
    • Do not pressurize children to stick to curriculum and studies 24*7 (It is a very bad parenting technique).
    • Take your teen for a counselling session if he/she seems low and dull for a comparatively long timeframe.(This doesn’t mean that they’ve lost their mental stability, it’s just a relaxation method to open up themselves).

However, even after all such dreadful incidents the Blue Whale Challenge is just held as a suspective motive behind the suicides and nothing has been confirmed or proved yet. Now having lost the chance to save their children the cries of the parents is nothing but of useless.

So, if you’re a parent, if you have a sibling or even if you love your fellow being all you have to do is to educate your kids and teens around not to fall as a prey for such cyber brutality because ‘A life once lost is lost forever’.

Naked- Discover your true self.

Do you enjoy your naked self? Are you still struggling to vent out your agonies? Then you are at the right place to unfold yourself. But hey don’t get me wrong. I meant your naked soul and not your naked body.

Life’s a huddle and in that huddle you may always not find someone who actually loves your true self. But never loose hope in life, because you never know love and respect may knock your door anytime. Who said it is women who are always fragile? There are men who are sensitive and women who are extremely mean but their tales are left unheard. Not to blame the society but blame yourself for not being true to yourself. If you can no longer stay honest and transparent to yourself then how do expect yourself to be the same to others? If you are being abused, then who should be held responsible? Isn’t it you who should be blamed for letting yourself down in the eyes of the others?

There’re million of questions unanswered in me. Everytime when I’m being let down or mentally/ physically assaulted I tend to grow furious of why is that I’m always being victimised! The stress and pressure eats my head and gulps my self-peace.

Eventually one day, when I found out the answer the rush of relief is unexplainable and something that I have never ever experienced. The sole answer to end up in a solution is discovering your “Naked self”. The nakedness of inner soul, inner happiness and self esteem. So, folks it’s never late to enjoy your nakedness. Just sit back and enjoy being naked and hey amidst admiring yourself don’t forget to discover your true self.

Facing the mirror gazing at herself,

Glistened her eyes peeking at her naked self,

Off the tastes of sour and bitter,

Flashed her past like streams of jitter.

Bruises of violence,

Sealed by her years of silence,

Nothing left to mourn,

She finally set on towards her unruffled sojourn.

Nevermore she fancied her curves,

Nor dared to expose her posied soul,

Yearned to unmask herself,

And lusted to come out of her shell,

Cherished her naked self and she discovered her true self.

Janmashtami Special

Krishan Jayanthi/Gokulaashtami or Janmashtami is around the corner! So tell me! Are you chamathhu kozhandells helping out your mom with shopping ‘Vennai (butter)’ and by paying frequent visits to ‘Maavu mill (Flour mill)’ ? Well,I did. Every year right from my childhood I used to eagerly wait for this special festival! I really don’t know if there’s a specific reason, may be the tiny foot prints of Krishnar and Amma’s mouth watering dishes excites me more than anything.

I still remember it all starts with dressing up babies in Baal Krishna’s attire (Just like the one for fancy dress competition). The ‘Ottiko kattiko- Velcro dhoti’ exposes the baby’s big belly , the mandatory dummy flute and the peacock feather stuck to the hairless head of the kid. And today amma still cherishes the memories where she dipped mine and akka’s baby feet in “Arisi maavu” making Krishna’s route to the Pooja room.


So getting to the point! The preparations kick starts couple of days before the big day to commemorate krishna’s birthday. The savouries and sweets are must to be tatsed. The delicious salt and sweet seedai, the rich and devouring rava laddu with rasins secretly hidden inside, the crispy butter murukku melts the moment you drop them inside your mouth, pots of milk and creamy curd and of course the star of the day “Mr.Butter”. Woah!! My mouth starts to linger!


Eventually as the dawn falls, awaits the year’s biggest feast to baby krishna. Adorning the idol with flowers and offerings of fruits and the specialy made (Neivedhyams) sweets and savouries. And there I’m resisting the urge to grab the first bite of the murukku and gobble up two rava laddus at a time once the karpooram (camphor) goes off soon after the Dheeparadhanai! Only then comes the day to an end after successfully completing two poojas; one for Krishna and the other for my tummy which barely gets tired even after all the gulping and the endless loading!


Isn’t it lovely to just travel back and forth between your childhood to adulthood!? I bet you are missing the good old days but it’s always a pleasure to look back. So what are you paavam kozhandells in abroad and in unknown cities upto? Missing home? Or missing Amma’s murukku and seedai? If yes! Drop me in your memorable krishna Jayanthi memories and may lord Krishna shower you with strength, happiness, romance and lots & lots of love.

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Happy Janmashtami!💛

Mahalakshmi Ramasubramanian.

Break up with ‘Breakup’

Aren’t you guys wondering why is that I always come up with writings orbiting around love, relationship and marriage? Well, you shall ask me why but I really don’t have a great answer to it. So let’s get straight! I’d always say- Somehow, at some point of time, under some weird influences we absolutely fall head over heels in love! It’s a fact and you can’t deny it. For some it’ll work out of blue and for some it’s an another missed boat! But don’t you think crying over the split milk is an utter nonsense? Because, ‘Breakup’ breaks you down, so better ‘Break up’ with breakup before the ‘Breakup’ breaks you more! (Woo hoo! Doesn’t it sound much like a tounge- twister?)

Your tears are still far from the cry of those who doesn’t really deserve you. I swear it’s really hard to see your sulking face, swollen eyes, messed up hair, un maintained jungli beard and in the shabby pajamas of yours. And I’m not here to say, ‘ Oh! I’m so sorry to hear that’, ‘Oops! Must have been hard to digest the truth right?’ nor to mourn your loss but to party with you for your narrow escape! So, here are few ‘Must Do’s’ to unhook yourself from the “Breakup zone”!

Tip 1: Cleanse your aura!

This is one cleansing method to get rid yourself off the memories, good old days, the so called romantic stuffs and gifts and ofcourse how can I forget the pictures afterall? Cleanse, cleanse & cleanse and once you feel that you’re all holy guess what? Cleanse again and say goodbye! (‘cuz I know you are still not over it and I cannot take a chance).

Tip 2: Never hesitate to smack if someone post-mortems your past!

Trust me! There are lot of people out there more interested to check out your ass than theirs! And dare you hesitate to give one sweet punch on their face afterall they’re jobless except for sprinkling salt onto your cuts!

Tip 3: Care for some lone time!

Having cleansed your aura and returning the nosy people the flavour of their own medicine, spare yourself some lone quality time. Care for a fancy dinner in your cozy room lit up with candles, read your favourite picked novel with a steaming cup of coffee or chaai, dust up the old PlayStation, go for nice long walk or a drive with your favourite kind of music on, travel and laugh your life out or may be you shall do something that you’ve always wanted to do! I bet you’ll totally figure out your worth at the end of the day.

Tip 4: It’s Spa season!

Rejuvenation is a must! Lot of people find it useless but count on me it absolutely works. Treat yourself with a relaxing and calming spa treatment. Why not some Pedicure and manicure, some luscious hair spa and yeah Chop, chop, chop! your hair is done. Groom up to flatter the hot chicks and hunks out there with the your newest macho and hot avtar. So,Why just be an ex, be THE HOTTEST EX!

Tip 4: Hang around with fellas!
Friends and family are the one and one only cure to every single problem and pains of yours. They don’t tell you that they care but they do more than they care. Try to grab atleast a meal with them, hang around the house or have a quick visit to family. Make sure to flush out the pent up agony and negativities. And no matter what happens just remember that friends and family are always a blessing in disguise.

Tip 5: Focus on your future!

You are absolutely perfect now. You’re guilt-free, stress-free, independent, strong and a contended Man/Woman. Look out and set onto the path of your dream career. Nothing is a rocket science that’s hard to achieve. Finally, listen to what your heart says and enjoy the rest of your life to the zenith.

Spilling insights is my favourite hobby ‘cuz every person is special and every soul deserves happiness. Not every lovers are happy and not every lovers who parted ways are traumatized. The ball is on your court and I really now feel that’s it’s time to ‘ Break up with ‘Breakup’, because your life costs you more than an arm and a leg!

Happy reading,

Mahalakshmi Ramasubramanian.


‘So, It’s your turn now to get married, Get married before you turn bald, When are you planning for the “Kalyana Virundhu”, Get married soon before you become too old to conceive a baby’ annoying isn’t it?

To all those “Chamathhu Kozhandhells” who run away hearing the word “Kalyanam(Marriage)” and to all those relatives and parents who are never tired of chasing them.

Kalyanam-Kathirikkai” is one sad yet an honest note about the atrocities and eventualities that every single youth of 20’s encounter on their daily routine. Woah you have started to judge me right? Well! Don’t think that it’s my story but that tale which flips the dreams of many fellas into nightmares! Here it goes!

Rule:1 An Engineering graduate is qualified to get married!       

Preferably girl/boy who has completed B.E/MBBS/BL etc or specifically an Ms holder residing in abroad! Are you interviewing us for a job opening? “Hai hai he’s a journalist! How can you marry him ‘cuz his life is under stake?, Ayooo she’s a fashion designer she must be wearing tiny clothes even after marriage” and bammm you’re rejected! 

Rule:2 “Good looking, fair and belonging to affluent family”.

“Beta! I’ve found you a girl she’s fair so must be obviously good looking, The guy’s father is a bank manager! I bet the guy must also have great earnings, *Racism overloaded*.” We understand you desparately want us to get married but don’t you think these pointless taboos in today’s world is really going to help your sons or daughters find a genuine partner?

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Rule:3 Yay to “Abroad Maapillai” and Nay to “Abroad Ponnu”.

Huhn? A girl born or brought up in abroad must necessarily be uncultured right? “Oops she must have tons of boyfriends!, *Hush hush* She must have already had sex because she’s in abroad *Hush Hush*, Ewwww I know Lakshmi Athai’s neighbour’s Friend’s cousin’s neice smokes because she lives in abroad!” On the contrary “Congratulations foreign Maapillai ah? Very good very good! Nice selection”. 

P.S. Meh!!! No comments! 

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Rule:4 Your sister is in line! You must now get married.

*Cliche, cliche, cliche* This is one big pressure borne by every single man out there. By the time you turn 26 you must have a car, a 3bhk flat, a minimum of 1L salary per month (Lol! Minimum huhn) and here he’s all set for marriage. But don’t you think your daughters must also have the same ownings? I agree your son-in-law would treat your daughter like a queen but shouldn’t the queen share her king’s burden? Oh wait! How can I forget. You have an another daughter in line to spoil her life by the time she turns 20 right?

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Rule:5 Get married whenever the astrologer says!

Raasi, Lagnam, Jaathagam etcetera! etcetra! And who decides this not you, not even your parents but a random astrologer whacks your life up! ‘It’s high time to get married with in this year because your horoscope says you won’t find a partner for the next half decade!’

Rule:6 The BIG NIGHT’S investigation

Isn’t it ridiculous to ask them how did the night go or to ask them if they did it right? You think I’m cooking this rule up nah? Your cousins must have got married recently well! You shall check this out with them. Grow up you oldies! They are adults now and you needn’t explain what to do and how to do.

Rule:7 Where’s the good news?
Alright! Your kids are married now and all the formalities are done! The honeymoon, the visits to relative’s houses, shifting places and what are you waiting for? Go on start shooting them with “When are you going to give us the good news?”. Afterall they’ve got married just to gift you with grandchildren right?

Rule:8 Always have your husband under control!

In which angle do your husband look like remote cars! You charge him up, instruct him what to do and above all ” Force him to divorce his parents”. However they’ve just brought him up for years, educated him, got him a big house and have found you as his partner but how do you repay them?- “Why can’t we move out separately? I would like to have some  privacy!” You seriously are dumb wifeys! 

P.S. Can you tell me who’s the real victim now?

Well you might think that I am just repeating the usual dialogues when there’re profound issues prevailing. I do know that there is still this dowry, marital rape, domestic violence and so on. But you know what? All the above rules are laid by those so called educated, middle and upper-middle class families in the materialistic society who boast themselves to be broad minded and social. Ofcourse not here to blame nor to critize anyone but a petite attempt from my part from letting you being blamed. 

Ultimately who wouldn’t want to taste their Kalyana Kathirikkai? It’s just that you must make and let them make it tasteful!

Raped And Ravaged

Since I was a child my Amma(Mom) always used to instruct me “Kanna! Never let anyone touch you and especially never talk to strangers”. But then I never really understood the motive behind what she said nor questioned her with what and whys! And all of sudden the truth struck me hard in my adolescents​.

Yes,Gang-Rape! Child sexual abuse! Female trafficking! Molestation! Acid attack! Mutilation of private parts! Ufff! It is way much painful than it sounds. And how are they tagged “Rape victims”. But why? And for what? Just because a beast has no control over his sexual fantasies and dirty lustful urges, why are these innocent children and women are being preyed for sex? 

It puts me into this who world of rage and aggravation everytime I come across such incidents. But seriously a 10month old baby brutally been raped by paternal uncle! And what else is left to for the parents to have for life? The blood stained frock of the baby? This is sickening!

What happened when our India’s daughter stayed out late for the night? I guess it’s the girl’s fault to hang out after it’s 6pm right? Oh no no! She’s characterless ‘cuz she has a male friend or may be she was wearing skinny clothes and all these traits invited those men to rape her. Right? Why can’t a 23 year old girl chose the life she wants to live? And guess what! she was rewarded with her intestine torn into pieces, metal rod & glass bottle in her genitals and thrown naked unconsciously on the busy streets of the famous city.Just because she doesn’t have a penis, is she deprived of all rights and freedom? 

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Agreed! If it was her fault the reason behind she was raped, how come the 12 year old kid was gang-raped and burnt alive with acids? And this happened​ hardly a week ago and it barely fell into many of the deaf insensitive ears of the country. Why did the 29 year old law student was gruesomely raped, stabbed and inhumanly murdered in her own house? She was found in pool of blood where her breasts were found to be repeatedly stabbed and her body has been grossly sliced. 

With his every single thrust,

She felt her blood flow,

With her every single tear,

She watched her soul die slow.

There are innumerable times where we’d think someday or the other this barbarities and killings will come to end but the ultimate painful truth is that these sexual torchers happen in every 20 minutes in India with not even a slightest ray of shrinking. Clueless of why and where things starts to go wrong. I don’t know if we are yet to face an another Nirbhaya Or an another Jisha! But the truth is that it hurts. Rape hurts not just physically but mentally, emotionally because irrespective of the gender the agony, the torture and the sufferings borne are all the same.

Yesterday it was someone, today it could be someone and who knows tomorrow it could be your sister, wife, daughter or your friend! But will the pain ever end?- Is still an unanswered petition!

It’s Not Your Fault!

All of us must have fallen for someone in our lives at some point of time. Some could have been a serious emotion and for some it could have just been a lusty fling! But you know what ‘It’s not your fault’.

Yes, It’s not your fault that you betrayed your lover, it’s not your fault that you abused him/her, it’s not your fault because double-timing isn’t a problem when you were already in love and it’s really not your fault everytime you broke all the so-called promises you did! It is very simple to say ” Oh yea! We broke ‘cuz it dint work” and it takes a millisecond to say “Nah! I cannot see my future with you”.

But you know whose fault is it? It was and it is your significant other’s! It’s your partner’s fault to trust you every single time even after knowing that you’ve cheated, it’s you your soulmate’s fault for having been with you inspite of all your shitty abusals, it’s your “Bae’s” fault for loving you unconditionally with absolute no expectations! And finally you know what the BIGGEST FAULT is!?- Falling in love with a person who has absolute no self respect and the nerves to own up!

And you! the crazy ones whining for having lost the life you dreamt! What do you get from such a life? “Happiness? – No!, Respect?- A big Nay!, Love?- Oh Please! c’mon who cares about your feelings!”. It’s true it hurts, it’s true that it rips up your heart, it’s true that thinking about falling in love again is a nightmare. But is it something that you can never give a second chance?

“I’m giving up on you and my life, I cannot live without you, I can’t imagine a life where you are not there” initially these phrases never really bothered me but now the moment I hear someone say this my blood just starts to boil. SERIOUSLY! You’re giving up on your parents, friends, family and above all your life for a person who never really bothered to check if you’re alive? Are you nuts?

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I totally agree it’s easy to say but it’s hard to handle when you’re in that situation. But honestly honey! Is it really worth it? C’mon there are lots of fishes in the ocean that you may fall in love with! Go dive in and grab the one your heart says. It is perfectly fine to feel depressed and sad but dare you feel guilty! You tumble, you fall ane you must again set on with your journey of life.

Never be sorry or never regret your decisions afterall it’s your life! So live it to the fullest and condition free! And I’m sure you will simply sense the beauty of it!